Sibling
rivalry in sport...
For some, sibling rivalry brings out the best in us. In AFL there are four Selwood Brothers all playing at the top level. There is Serena and Venus still rocking the tennis world. Australia had the three Chappell brothers play for their country in cricket.
In the past it had never affected me. I grew up playing top
level junior hockey while my brothers played top level basketball and football
(AFL).
We all
enjoyed our sport and I guess the only rivalry was who would be able to have
mum and dad come and watch them. I think
did miss the chance to stick up for a little brother or show off the skills out
on the field but I nearly always won back yard cricket.
This brings
me to my current life as a runner. The Salomon trail series is just under two
weeks away and I’m getting both excited and a little nervous as well. Why? Sibling
rivalry. Well, almost. My brother-in-law is also running in the first race, the
11km ‘medium’ course. He’s becoming
an excellent runner. His last 10km time was a few seconds quicker than mine.
That makes me nervous and brings a lot of personal searching.
How do I run the next race? Will I go out with him? Do I
trail him and see how he paces over the early stages of the race? What if he
beats me?
I’ve never
really had to deal with this before. I ran ‘against’ him in my first Puffing
Billy run, before I took things more seriously and I was beaten by a few
minutes. Now it gets a little more real. My personal pride and ego are at stake.
I’ve also
been running with the Dandy Runners and quite a few of my good running mates
are running the 11km Salomon trail series or the Salomon Series medium courses
as well. I know I can keep with them and possibly place ahead of them. But I’m
getting nervous. It’s gone from racing the field to racing people I know. Maybe
I finally have to start really racing… Maybe it might be the push I need to get
a solid top 10 finish.
Let me know your thoughts with your
comments below.
How do you
complete when sibling rivalry gets involved?
How do you
race when fellow club members are out in the field? Does it improve your
performance or does it hinder and start niggling away mentally?
I’ll let you
know in a couple of weeks after the first race in the 2013 Salomon trail
series.
Cheers and happy running as always,